I liked the idea of a decade in review, which I have seen on several blogs. It's a nice way to look back and contemplate life events. I will only list, not contemplate here. Too much self disclosure, just like too much privacy is not my thing.
So here we go:
2000
- got into grad school
- got married (to a man 9 years older than me)
- honeymoon in Hawaii hiking the islands
- moved to Ohio for grad school.
- experienced huge culture shock
- had my first cry in front of my husband over an upcoming statistics test. He read the entire book and explained everything to me, including the fact that I was smart enough to get a PhD. Statistics became my strength.
-spent way too much time studying and secured the "know it all, nerd status" on campus.
-ran 4-5 miles 5-6days/week, including in the winter, which led to eyebrow raises by both professors and students.
2001
- school, school, school
- got a cat even though I hated cats at the time, as Chris felt lonely while I was in the lab all day long.
Squeeky changed my impression about cats.
-made great friends.
-continued running 4-5 miles 5-6 days a week.
-ran a 5K and placed 2
nd overall with a 8:XX pace (yes, I know, that would never happen in New England).
2002
-defended masters
-spent way to much time studying, but loved every moment of it.
-dad died of cancer, I studied some more.
-kept up with running
-lots of hiking and white water rafting.
2003
-more school
-loved school and the success I was having
-did some teaching, started to publish a bit.
-lots of cross country skying and hiking.
2004
-defended dissertation
-had to leave USA due to immigration issues (INS lost my
marriage paperwork).
-became an
illegal immigrant with a PhD
-left the country in tears, along with Chris
-got pregnant by accident
-New Years in Romania
- ran the streets of Bucharest while being chased by dogs.
2005
-toughest year ever
-fought for permanent residency
-applied for psychology residency in US and Canada (since it was uncertain whether I would be able to get back to the US)
- had phone interviews while mom's dog barked in the other room. I think the dog got me into Harvard (my interviewer was a dog lover).
-returned to US in May
-started residency in July.
-gave birth to
Petru John on August 10
th, 2005. Easy birth which later on left me feeling a bit inferior to all the horror birth stories I heard from other moms.
-back to residency October 1st. Chris stayed home with
Petru.
-somehow I (we) survived.
-ran with the jogging stroller and loved it!
2006
-Chris took a full time job teaching inner city. I worked full time as a postdoc.
Petru was in daycare full time. Lots of frozen pizza, messy house. Somehow we survived.
-little running with the jogger.
-game night with friends kept us sane.
2007
-Chris quit his job and started teaching PT. I continued working full time.
Petru went to day care part-time. Everyone was happier.
-joined a running group of moms.
-ran my first 1/2 marathon injured and finished in 2:06 limping.
-healed and continued to run with the group.
-got faster.
2008
-
PRed in 3 half marathons and got my time down to a 1:44. Got 2 stress fractures in the meantime.
-loved my job.
-got my first grants and more independence.
-lots of trail running in the summer.
-forced myself to get over a water phobia.
-
taught myself to swim breast stroke.
2009
-got over my fear of injury and started training for Boston along with 2 friends (for charity).
-loved the training.
-became more and more passionate about running.
-started reading about running and learned that, hm, one should never run all out all the time...
-no injuries.
-ran 2 marathons;
PRed-ran 2 half marathons;
PRed-ran a 5K;
Pred.
-race my first triathlon.
-realized I need to race more.
-taught myself how to swim free style.
-bought my first road bike and did lots of summer biking.
-a few work changes but landed on my feet and secured a pretty nice setup.
-loved parenting more than any of the prior years.